Dandiya and Garba nights double as matchmaking events: Couples coordinate attire to signal interest

Hyderabad: Dandiya and Garba nights during Navratri have long served as more than just a celebration of devotion; they have also become key social events within the Gujarati community, fostering new relationships and matchmaking opportunities.

Traditionally, these festivals provided young men and women with a chance to meet in a culturally accepted environment, often with family approval, laying the foundation for potential marriages.

Evolving Traditions: From subtle signals to open courtship

In the past, Dandiya and Garba events were more reserved, with couples using subtle glances or indirect interactions to express interest. Families would often play a pivotal role in observing potential matches.

However, over the years, these customs have evolved. Today, many young couples openly showcase their relationships by participating in Garba and Dandiya events together.

Ritesh Patel, a community member from Secunderabad, shared, “Back in the day, we had to be discreet if we liked someone. Now, couples wear matching outfits to show they are together, and it’s become a way to communicate to families and the community that they are serious about each other.”

Matching Outfits: A modern symbol of commitment

A new trend seen in recent years is couples dressing in coordinated outfits for Garba and Dandiya nights. Wearing matching colours or similar designs has become a popular way for couples to signal that they are courting each other, making it clear to the community that they are in a relationship.

Nisha Mehta, a participant in a Hyderabad-based Garba event, said, “Wearing matching outfits is our way of saying we are together without having to say it directly. It’s a fun way to show unity, and people instantly recognise that we are a couple.”

Community’s role in matchmaking

While modern dating apps and matrimonial platforms have become more common for matchmaking, the traditional role of families during Navratri remains important.

Families often attend Garba together, observing potential matches in a relaxed, festive setting. For many, this period still serves as an opportunity for introductions and socialising in a culturally appropriate manner.

Sunita Shah, an elder from the Gujarati community in Cyberabad, emphasised, “Navratri has always been about family and community. It’s still the time when families come together to celebrate, and matchmaking naturally happens. We might not be as involved as we once were, but the festival continues to bring young people closer.”

The future of Dandiya as matchmaking season

As modern dating and cultural traditions intersect, the role of Dandiya and Garba in matchmaking is expected to continue evolving. What remains unchanged is the cultural aspect of these celebrations, where relationships can blossom in the spirit of fun and togetherness.