Real life '2 States': AP man introduces Punjabi girlfriend to parents, tweets their reactions
A Twitter user Vivek Raju from Andhra Pradesh introduced his Punjabi girlfriend to his parents and took to Twitter to report the drama that unfolded.
By Newsmeter Network Published on 11 April 2021 8:48 AM GMTHyderabad: A Twitter user Vivek Raju from Andhra Pradesh introduced his Punjabi girlfriend to his parents and took to Twitter to report the drama that unfolded. The story that seemed oh-so-familiar to those who had watched '2 States' had the netizens hooked. The tweet has been liked more than 6,000 times and has been retweeted more than 650 times.
Vivek Raju who works at deckrooster.com broke the news about his Punjabi girlfriend to his parents. It was met with silence from his family.
"Broke the news about my girlfriend to my parents last night. We are from Andhra. Girlfriend is Punjabi. Fun times in the house. Mom is okay. Dad has gone completely silent. Having fun observing this once in a lifetime reaction from parents (unless my brother drops a bomb too)," Vivek tweeted.
Broke the news about my girlfriend to my parents last night. We are from Andhra. Girlfriend is Punjabi.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Fun times in the house. Mom is okay. Dad has gone completely silent.
Having fun observing this once in a lifetime reaction from parents (unless my brother drops a bomb too)
After the announcement, Vivek updated, "Dad's avoiding now. Hiding behind the phone to avoid further conversation."
A little later he tweeted, "Dad wants her to come and visit him this weekend. Okay no, meet right now it seems. No covid and all. Book flight and come it seems. My video call suggestion is banished before it was out of my mouth."
Dad wants her to come and visit him this weekend. Okay no, meet right now it seems. No covid and all. Book flight and come it seems.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
My video call suggestion is banished before it was out of my mouth
But to his surprise he found out from his mother that his father thought the girl was from Karnataka. "I thought she was kannadiga because she studied in Bangalore which is still culturally closer but she is Punjabi!!!," his father told his mother.
Things escalated quickly from here and his mother started "dreaming" about her new daughter-in-law. "Mum's being a total cutie on the side. Already dreaming about daughter in law and all and how they'll hang together. Indian moms and melodrama I tell you," tweeted Vivek.
Mum's being a total cutie on the side. Already dreaming about daughter in law and all and how they'll hang together š
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Indian moms and melodrama I tell you
What an exit it would have been. Sure must have banged the door close as he walked out, briefcase in hand. Full swag only.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Well, to settle things, Vivek thought of sitting with his dad over drinks, but they don't drink together. However, he dreams about drinking with his father-in-law.
"Both my dad and I don't drink. Ah, we can't even settle this over alcohol. But more than my dad, you know who's disappointed by this? My future father in law: "Wait what, with whom am I supposed to share this whiskey?'(sic)," wrote Vivek.
Both my dad and I don't drink. Ah, we can't even settle this over alcohol.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
But more than my dad, you know who's disappointed by this? My future father in law: "Wait what, with whom am I supposed to share this whiskey?'
Meanwhile, Vivek's mother came up with the idea of sending a few photos of his girlfriend to his dad on WhatsApp. "Because apparently, a picture can also get someone to shout 1000 words," Vivek quipped.
Ok. Break time. Dad's in office. No action now. Don't know when I will be back
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Ok. Few quick updates.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Mom came up with brilliant idea of sending few photos of my girlfriend to dad on whatsapp. Because apparently, a picture can also get someone to shout 1000 words.
He sent a photo of his girlfriend to his family WhatApp group but the group was unresponsive. "No response. Pin drop silence on the family group. Can you imagine? No forwards, no good afternoons. Just silence in an Indian family whatsapp group," he wrote.
I sent the pics that my girlfriend and I had curated beforehand. No response. Pin drop silence on the family group. Can you imagine? No forwards, no good afternoons. Just silence in an Indian family whatsapp group.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Also, since many of you asked, girlfriend told her parents few months ago. They are totally fine. No drama. I doubt they are from India.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Update: Dad came back late from work (intentionally? One can never know).
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
The house is currently like someone farted loudly at the dining table. Everyone knows something big has happened but no one is saying anything.
After his dad came back home from the office, he tried talking to him. The conversation unfolded over his dad tying his lungi and him discussing the IPL.
Dad's tying his lungi.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Me: "IPL is starting tomorrow"
Dad continues tying his lungi
Me: "Dad, IPL from tomorrow"
Still tying lungi.
Why is it taking so long? Arranged marriages get fixed in the time my dad ties his lungi
Again, I run out before soft rubbery things come flying. Life lesson here: Between fight and flight vs dad, always choose flight. I repeat, always flight.
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
In the end Vivek decided to give his dad some space to process the fact. "Done for today. He's not a villain. He'll most probably come around. Love him lots. Gonna give him space to process this. This is gonna take few days. Or weeks. Don't know. Adieu till then. Be on the lookout," Vivek ended the thread.
Done for today. He's not a villain. He'll most probably come around. Love him lots ā¤ļø
ā Vivek Raju (@vivekraju93) April 8, 2021
Gonna give him space to process this. This is gonna take few days. Or weeks. Don't know. Adieu till then. Be on the lookout.
Vivek's story seems to have hit a nerve among Twitteratis who are responding with their own similar stories.
Totally relate to this
ā Ninjamonkey (@Aryan_warlord) April 8, 2021
I'm Bengali , the wife is half Refugee Punjabi & Half Bihari .
I actually broke the news on the day of my Grandfather's Shradhš¤Ŗ
Grandma was all like he never got to see his grandkids married, wonder if I too will go this way .
I said you don't need to ..
I can totally relate to this...
ā Rahul Sahu (@rahulsahuxyz) April 8, 2021
My wife is from Andhra and we are from Madhya Pradesh..
Definitely once in a lifetime moment to convince both the families...
Both of us were on the edge till we got married.
In the end, Love Triumphs ALL !
I can feel you bro..
ā Vamshee Rao (@vamshee_rao) April 10, 2021
I have the same situation. My native is Guntur Andhra Pradesh and my girlfriend is a Punjabi.
My parents are totally against it. They need a South Indian girl at all cost. Mom has clearly said NO and dad is like "whatever mom says is right".